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6 women share why they had affairs on sites like Ashley Madison, why they don't regret it, and how they didn't get caught. Email Twitter icon A stylized bird with an open mouth, tweeting. Twitter LinkedIn icon.
LinkedIn Link icon An image of a chain link. It symobilizes a website link url. Copy Link lighning bolt icon An icon in the shape of a lightning bolt. Shelby said that her husband has never made her orgasm, but she doesn't want to end her marriage. Crystal Cox/Insider. This story is available exclusively to Business Insider subscribers. Become an Insider and start reading now. Have an account? Log in . Insider spoke with married women who cheated about their motivations and tactics. Most said they had lackluster sex with their husbands and used Ashley Madison to have their affairs. A Hulu docuseries says that people are still using the website despite its infamous 2015 data leak. Sign up to get the inside scoop on today’s biggest stories in markets, tech, and business — delivered daily. Read preview. When Shelby cheated on her husband, she had her first orgasm ever. The 54-year-old, who used a pseudonym to protect her identity, told Insider that her sexual pleasure felt like an afterthought to her husband, who she's been married to for 20 years. She grappled with cheating on him multiple times, and finally did last Christmas when he decided to work a holiday shift instead of spending time with her, Shelby said. This story is available exclusively to Business Insider subscribers. Become an Insider and start reading now. Have an account? Log in . Insider spoke with Shelby and other women who cheated on their spouses. To find affair partners, all of women but one used Ashley Madison, a website for married people seeking affair partners. The website and its infamous 2015 data leak, where an estimated 32 million users had their private information leaked online, is now the subject of a Hulu documentary called The Ashley Madison Affair." Despite the world knowing that the site did not protect users' addresses, names, and nude photographs, people are still signing up on Ashley Madison to find fulfillment through extramarital affairs. The women Insider interviewed explained why they decided to pursue sex outside of their marriages — like a lack of interest from their husbands — and how they did it without getting caught. A 27-year-old mother said she joined Ashley Madison after feeling unsupported by her husband while raising their 2-year-old daughter. The woman, who used the pseudonym Michelle to protect her identity, stepped out of her 6-year marriage. She told Insider that her husband's sex drive seemed to be lower than hers. She didn't anticipate their lack of sexual chemistry when she met him 10 years ago, when she was 17. "In some ways, I think I settled because I didn't really think there was a lot of options. Knowing that there are so many other people out there I can have these crazy world adventures with, it's kind of a nice feeling," she said. Michelle said that using Ashley Madison felt overwhelming at first, but ultimately helped boost her confidence and relationship with her sexuality. She currently sees the same affair partner, who she met on the website, once a week. They have sex at her house while her husband is at work and her daughter is at daycare, she told Insider. No one knows about the arrangement besides the two of them because Michelle said that she fears judgment from her Christian community. Still, Michelle said that she thinks she's a better mother because of her affairs. "When my daughter's around, I'm more present with her, just because I'm a little happier. Those little self-care things, like I pride myself in doing my hair and makeup more, give a confidence boost," she said. Another woman was fed up with her 'vanilla' sex life with her husband, so she made an Ashley Madison account and spreadsheet to track her matches. During an episode of the podcast "She Wants More," the woman said she joined Ashley Madison after years of sexual boredom with her husband. According to the woman, who used Nikki as a pseudonym to protect her identity, she still loves her husband of 15 years. Before joining Ashley Madison, Nikki tried to be more adventurous with him during sex, asking to have her hair pulled or butt spanked. Still, the sex was lackluster, Nikki said. It seemed like her husband was disinterested in improving their intimacy, so she made an Ashley Madison account and was met with a "torrential downpour of potential men," she said. Her solution? An Excel spreadsheet outlining each man's screen name, attractiveness rating, consistency in responding to her messages, and his ability to listen and get to know her through conversation. Then, Nikki created an untraceable Google Voice number and WhatsApp for texting and screened the men. She verified their identities with video calls, choosing 10 to meet for in-person dates. Nikki said the man she ultimately picked for her first affair fulfilled fantasies she'd had for "aggressive" sex. "I picked the best overall based on our chemistry, the quality of person I believed him to be, what he had to offer the affair.
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